by MarkAllen » Sun Nov 08, 2009 8:57 am
ninja,
There are plenty of articles and chapters in poker books about when to quit a game or quit for the day. As one who plays both live and online, I can tell you that it's much more difficult to quit an online game than a live game. Still...
Poker is a lifelong session. The cards aren't going to be any different if you play your next hand in 2 minutes or 2 years from now. It's all in your state of mind. If your mindset is one that handicaps you, it's time to quit. If you have issues going on in your personal life, you probably shouldn't play at all. But, if you're making good decisions...more succinctly, if you're making better decisions than your opposition in the game...you should continue to play whether you're winning or losing, so says the professional poker majority. Just be objective about your own ability and whether you have any edge against the competition. In other words, can you beat the game.
I've heard and read a number of different "time to quit" signals. I've personally adopted 2 that I use. 1. The losses have reached the point that it's painful. 2. You have made X mistakes in the last X hands you've played.
I have a set amount I'm willing to invest in a good game, in terms of buyins, and if they're used up, I leave the game. This is regardless of whether I lost due to bad beats or not. Specifically, it would pain me to lose 5 buy ins in a single game. So if I lose 2 buyins in a single game, I either quit for the day or go find a softer/better game instead. Either I'm not a favorite or my style of play isn't one that's going to beat the opponents I'm facing. I've bent this rule a few times, but never made a profit doing so. (These blankity-blank fish call down with bottom pair! How can I possibly not beat this game?! By catching miracle cards, by shoving light and forcing me to fold, by making me make bad decisions--like open shoving with AA UTG for 100BB. [My definition for tilt.])
I know I'm done for the day if I make 3 mistakes in the last 6 hands I (voluntarily) played. We all make mistakes every day we play, it's a given in a game of incomplete information. But when I start making them frequently, I attribute it to a lack of focus, tiredness/fatigue, or (when running bad) tilt. This is a sign that continuing to play is a bad investment and it's time to leave.
EDIT: I remember reading that a particular pro (I want to say Chip Reese but I could be mistaken) allowed himself 2 mistakes per session. When he made a 2nd mistake for the day, he quit.
I spend about an hour each day preparing for that days session by reviewing my previous day's play. I take 30 minute breaks every 2-3 hrs, during which time I'm on CardPlayer.com or 2+2 reading articles and forums. This puts me the in right frame of mind to play well. None of this makes me immune to bad beats, but I sure handle them better when I'm in the right frame of mind.
For instance, my stellar hand today. I'm on the button w/Tc Ts, 9-handed. MP limps, I raise 5xBB, SB folds, BB reraises to 17BB, MP folds, I call. BB is a semi-loose aggro player who bets 80-100% of the pot with his entire range (when he's taken the lead in a hand)--pp's, draws, over pairs. He can be a handful on the river cuz when he misses he bets the full pot on the river. He was caught bluffing in the hand previous to this one. Flop 5s 6s Th. I have top set--sweet. BB leads out for a PSB. I type in the chat box, "Why so much?" and call after the timer beeps. Turn: 9d. Obviously, I'm putting my opponent on Ax spades, QQ+. BB leads the turn with another PSB, which at this point is half his remaining stack. I type in the chat box, "Why are you pushing so hard?" and just call. I thought about shoving here, but he's doing such a good job of betting my hand, I don't want to discourage him. Whatever hits the river I know it's all going in. The river is the 7h. As expected, BB shoves his remaining stack. I instacall. He has pocket 8's and rivered his gutshot straight.
Looking at this hand, yeah, the result is bad, but I put myself in a good situation to get my opponent's entire stack. My only opportunity to take down the pot without a showdown was on the flop, but with top set and my opponent betting my hand for me (and dead to runner runner), thats just not an option I'm ever going to go for. I trapped him perfect, dead to 4 outs, and he got lucky. This is a pot I want to grow big, and I succeeded in doing that. The deck simply kicked me in the nuts. Like they say, that's poker.
Pick the good spots. Most of them work out in your favor, most of the time. It's only when the bad beats come in bunches that I really doubt my game. I just have to review the hands to see if I made mistakes. Sometimes yes (I rivered the nut flush but now the board is paired and villain is betting into me? RAISE! Oops, he has Jacks full. CRAP!), sometimes no (like the example above). If I'm making too many, it's time to step away til I'm back in the right frame of mind.
If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.