by straightpoolgal » Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:16 pm
Hi Mark,
Your asking a great question and there is no doubt that we all have had to face this in poker. When I'm in that zone, I think the poker gods are conspiring against me and I must beg them for forgiveness so that they will release this wrath that threw down on me.
On a serious note, as the others have suggested, is taking time off or stepping down in limits. It's funny, I think bad runs are actually good for us, where it forces us to really take a step back and focus on the fundamentals. I found when I go on a bad run, I need a break since I start doubting my hands and game. Any good player will say that you need to be confident and positive about your game to become a winning player over all.
Of course, having confidence can be nearly impossible to do when you are getting bad beats, big pkt pairs not holding, always having the 2nd best hand that is near impossible to fold, or missing the uber monster draws with a zillion outs, over and over again, which just mounts frustration. When the frustration devil comes out, I go chasing hands instead of letting them come to me. Additionally, I feel the bad run more when it's really affecting my BR and I am having nightmares about quads being beat by a straight flush. Losing 1/3 of your BR in a week has much more impact then losing it over a year.
My two passions in my world are poker and billiards. With both of them, I've encountered this situation where I do not have confidence and it definitely impacts my game. Here are the things I do to keep poker from taking a toll on my wallet and mind:
1. Step back and make it a priority to work on my mental game. I really work on eliminating the emotional response that I am having with my losing sessions.
2. Taking the time off - make it more than just a few days, more like a month. The game of poker will be there tomorrow, the next day and the many days after that.
3. I find things in my world that will instill confidence in me, such as work projects, volunteering in my community, building an empire (heck ya, an empire), spending time with friends and family, read a great book, wiping out enemies in a MMORPG, etc. These are all things that inspire me and help me gain that confidence back that is really critical for the game.
This time away presents an opportunity for me to plug holes in my game, tighten up a bit and evaluate my sessions. Finally something clicks, the confidence is back, poker gods are watching over me, and I know I am ready to start "running good".
The most recent lesson I learned was to not let my previous bad or good luck determine how I am going to play my hand out. I am going to play my hand based on my experience and sound decisions that in the long run will make me a winning player. It's true what they say, cards have no memory and they are not always going to run bad or good. You just gotta experience the swings and realize roller coasters are pretty fun.
Ultimately, if we are dedicated, we do emerge from the bad runs and turn into a stronger player.
-Jen
"I once gave up pool, it was the most terrifying weekend of my life."